The big first post!!

Published on 15 October 2025 at 13:34

So here goes, deep breath and speak!      no type

This is harder than speaking i think, but i want to try and explain Why this is so important to me. 

For long periods of time i have struggled from the ability to speak out when i have really needed too. Days, weeks and months pass and i have plenty to share but unable to share it. The words are there, i know what to say but nothing comes out. I find other things to say and avoid the obvious conversations. The silence has become my friend and in some strange way a really good one too! Its not an empty place but a safe space where just hang out together. I feel like the silence is full of things i didn't realize. Its quite full of things i can't explain like Fear & Hope but also Expectation to deliver. 

I wanted to start this blog because i got tired of trying to force my voice from myself without the confidence to do it. The ability to say what i think without limited consequence or fear of saying the wrong thing. Writing is slower for me and i feel like easier to get stuff down and have the ability to change it if i think it needs it. This is my way of learning and challenging myself to be able to talk but in a different way.

This will never be a perfect blog and there will be times of silence and I'm ok with that but id like others to be ok too. I'm not going to loud or even be confident but i will be honest and write when i can.

If this helps and you have felt or feel invisible inside your own quiet Then maybe we can help each other.

Welcome to The Silent Person